Counselor Beezy 🦋

Hi Counselor Beezy,   I am reaching out to you in a time of great uncertainty and confusion, seeking your advice and guidance on a challenging situation that has been weighing heavily on my heart. I am a 24-year-old rotational nurse, trying to navigate life's challenges and responsibilities. I found myself in a romantic relationship with a man in his late 30s while I was still a nursing student. He used to assist me financially during my years at the nursing school, a period when my parents were facing financial struggles. Our bond grew stronger due to our shared hometown and the familiarity of living away from home. As our relationship deepened, I discovered that he was a married man with three children, a fact he initially concealed by claiming to be separated from his wife. Despite my scepticism, I chose to believe him as my feelings for him were strong. However, after receiving a warning call from his wife, I confronted him and realized the truth. This revelation led to ou...

  Why Yelling at Children Is Wrong and How to Deal with Stubborn Children Children are constantly growing and learning. It is important for their development and overall well-being that they receive guidance and discipline from adults. However, yelling at children is not an effective or healthy way to communicate with them. In this blog post, we will explore why yelling at children is wrong and discuss alternative approaches to dealing with stubborn behaviour. The Harmful Effects of Yelling Yelling at children can have long-lasting negative effects on their emotional and psychological well-being. Here are a few reasons why it is important to avoid yelling: 1.  Fear and Anxiety : Yelling creates an atmosphere of fear and anxiety for children. They may feel anxious about making mistakes or expressing their emotions, leading to low self-esteem and a lack of confidence. 2.  Communication Breakdown : Yelling hampers effective communication. When children experience constant ye...