Counselor Beezy 🦋

Hey Counselor Beezy, I'm writing to seek your guidance and advice on a challenging situation I'm facing in my current relationship. About six months ago, I met a man at Kumasi Mall, and we began dating shortly after. Initially, everything seemed fine, and we both felt mature enough to handle a relationship. However, certain behaviors have emerged that are causing me concern. Firstly, he exhibits authoritative tendencies. When he wants something, he insists on it, and it feels like there's no room for compromise. Just a month into our relationship, he started telling me whom I should call and even wanted to pick up my friends for me. Recently, he visited me and came across a chat I had with another guy. This other person had been expressing romantic interest in me even before I met my current boyfriend, and while we occasionally kept in touch, our conversations were not serious. The most recent message from this person simply expressed missing me and wanting to see me again....

Dear Counselor Beezy, I hope this letter finds you well. I am in desperate need of guidance and support regarding a deeply troubling situation in my marriage. Your expertise and counsel are greatly valued, and I trust that you can provide me with some clarity and advice. I have been married for approximately one and a half years to a man with whom I've encountered significant challenges. When we initially dated for six months before our marriage, there were no signs of the issues that have since emerged. However, shortly after our marriage, my husband's insatiable desire for frequent sexual encounters became a serious concern. He insists on having sex with me daily, sometimes multiple times a day, except during my menstruation. I don't share his level of enthusiasm for frequent intimacy, but I have been trying to accommodate his desires to make him happy. However, this situation is taking a toll on me physically and emotionally. Our honeymoon experience was particularly exh...