How to achieve blissfulness in a relationship
Introduction
The happiest relationships I’ve seen were also the most effortless. The partners didn’t have to work hard to maintain or improve their connection. They just did easy things and made them feel good. It was as if they had become one being, with one mind, one body, and one spirit. In other words: blissfulness! If you want to achieve a better version of this experience in your own relationship (or if you are looking for advice on how), here are some simple but powerful ways that will help
Give yourself time to connect
Talk about things that are important to you.
Share your feelings, thoughts, and dreams with each other.
Ask each other questions about your lives and how you grew up so that you can learn more about each other's backgrounds, interests, and experiences before getting married or dating someone else
Hold hands.
Holding hands is a simple gesture that can mean a lot. It can be a reminder that you are there for each other and that your partner cares about them. Holding hands can also show affection, or it could have more of an emotional meaning than a physical one. Holding hands also give reassurance.
Schedule quality time.
Quality time is the most important part of a relationship. If you can't spend time together, it won't work out for you in the long run.
Schedule quality time every week or month or even better yet, weekly. It should be no more than two hours per week and no less than one hour per day. The goal here is not necessarily to spend all your free time together (though that would be great!), but rather to make sure that whatever happens during those times feels special and meaningful enough to warrant their existence on your calendar as something separate from everyday life at home or work.
Take care of touchy issues right away.
If a touchy issue has been lingering for longer than two weeks or so without being resolved by both parties involved then consider bringing it up again at this point to start fresh with things being resolved once and for all!
Sleep together, not apart
In our modern world, couples often spend less time sleeping together than they did in the past. But your relationship will benefit from more quality time spent snuggling up under the covers at night and that's not just for you two! There are many benefits of sleeping together that extend far beyond what it means for your physical health and well-being. It can help strengthen long-term connections between partners, improve overall moods and feelings of security in each other's presence (even if some people don't like being physically close to others), reduce stress levels during periods of stress (since we tend to feel calmer when we're sleeping), increase trust between partners.
Know when your partner needs some space, and give it to them.
It's important to know when your partner needs some space. If they're not happy, it can be hard for them to ask for what they need. That's why it's so important for both of you to communicate openly about how well things are going in the relationship and whether any issues need addressing or solutions waiting around the corner.
If one partner isn't communicating well, then that could mean that either of them has something going on outside of the relationship (or within) that needs attention. The best way forward is usually talking through these issues together instead of waiting until one partner gets upset enough with other things happening around them before their feelings bubble over into an argument over something else entirely unrelated.
Listen to each other’s point of view, even if you don’t agree with it.
This is an important step in a relationship because it shows that you care about the person and their feelings. Listening also helps them feel like they can talk about anything without being judged or ridiculed by their partner.
Give each other compliments every day.
Compliments are a great way to boost your partner's self-esteem. Many of us don't give compliments often enough, but it can be incredibly helpful in building intimacy and trust between you and your partner.
You must compliment each other on the following:
Appearance (the way they look)
Actions (the things they do)
Personality (who they are)
Make sure to include the achievements of either person as well.
Make a list of things your partner does that make you feel loved and cherished, then tell them about it.
One of the best ways to keep your relationship fresh and alive is to make a list of things your partner does that make you feel loved. Make this list as detailed as possible, identifying each thing with specific actions, words, or gestures that are meaningful to both of you. This can be anything from "I love it when they laugh"
It's also important not to forget about yourself when creating this list after all if there are no lists at all in the relationship (which isn't ideal), then one person might feel like they're missing out on something important while another could feel left out completely! If this sounds like something that would concern either person in particular.
Plan outings that you both enjoy, but do different things if you aren’t into the same hobbies.
To achieve blissfulness, it’s important to plan outings that you both enjoy, but do different things if you aren’t into the same hobbies. This way, even if some things don’t interest you anymore (like watching football), there will still be plenty of opportunities for bonding and spending time together outside of work hours.
It's also important not to force yourself or each other into doing something just because it's expected from one another; instead, find something fun on your own time so that it doesn't become too much pressure on trying new activities together during those times when we're bored with our everyday routines!
Ask each other questions about your lives and how you grew up. Be present and interested in their answer!
Do this by letting them finish talking, then asking a follow-up question at the end of their response. For example: "What do you think was your greatest strength growing up?" This shows that you're listening to what they have to say without interrupting them or talking over them.
Conclusion
It’s easy to get so wrapped up in the “doing” of our relationships that we forget about the “being.” But doing is only part of what it means to be human, and when we lose sight of our connection with others, we risk losing ourselves too. We must take time each day for those moments when we can really be present with our partner whether it's holding hands or just being still together in silence. By doing these five things together, you will build a stronger bond that lasts a lifetime.
Counselor Beezy🦋
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