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She scammed me.


Hi Counselor Beezy,

Approximately a decade ago, fate led me to a woman at a friend's wedding, igniting a romantic relationship that soon bore the precious gift of a son. As the responsibilities of parenthood settled upon us, we navigated the ups and downs of life, striving to ensure a bright future for our children during this journey that the woman I had come to care for, expressed her desire to pursue higher education in nursing, a dream she had cherished since her days in Senior High School.

With a heart full of goodwill and support for her aspirations, I readily committed to aiding her financially in this pursuit. To facilitate her dreams, I provided her with 35,000 cedis, a sum intended to cover tuition, admission fees, educational materials, and other related expenses. I would periodically receive pictures of her clad in a nursing uniform, which reassured me of her progress in her studies.

The days turned into weeks, and weeks into months, during which Sarah continued to paint an idyllic picture of her life in Kumasi, seemingly thriving in her studies and excelling in her newfound purpose. However, as I attempted to surprise her with an unannounced visit to the school, I found myself descending into a spiral of disbelief and betrayal.

Upon my arrival at the purported nursing school in Kumasi, the reception was starkly different from what I had envisioned. Despite her assurances of being present and available, nobody within the institution recognized her, revealing the web of deception I had unwittingly fallen into. I stood there, dumbfounded, clutching onto the remnants of hope, praying that what lay before me was a cruel misunderstanding.

As my hopes crumbled, I reached out to her friends, hoping to salvage any semblance of truth from this ordeal. It was then that her close confidante reluctantly revealed the bitter truth. She was not studying to become a nurse; instead, she had deceived me, pursuing her personal ambitions at the expense of my trust and unwavering support.

Days turned into sleepless nights, haunted by the echoes of her deceit and grappling with the gravity of the betrayal. I began to unearth the extent of her treachery, discovering her intentions to flee the country and start afresh, leaving behind not only our relationship but also the shattered pieces of my heart.

A call from an unknown foreign number marked her attempt at an apology, confirming her deceit and lack of remorse. I stand at a crossroads, grappling with the emotional turmoil and a profound sense of betrayal. I seek your expert counsel on how to heal from this ordeal, rebuild my life, and forge ahead, ultimately ensuring a stable and nurturing environment for my son.

Thank you 

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