Counselor Beezy 🦋

Hi Counselor, My story began when I was posted as a fresh teacher in a village in the Bono East District. I met a brilliant but needy student who, due to financial constraints, had struggled with consistency in her education. At the age of 16, she approached me as her class teacher one day, expressing her intention to leave school because her parents couldn't afford the BECE registration fee. I couldn't bear to see such a young and eager learner give up her education, so I decided to pay for her registration, enabling her to graduate from basic school with an exceptional aggregate of 8. As she continued her education, I supported her financially through high school, and our bond grew stronger, eventually leading to a romantic relationship. Her parents endorsed our relationship because they recognized the pivotal role I played in her educational success. Fast forward to her admission to the University of Energy, I continued to provide financial support for her tuition and living...

Hi Counselor, I trust this message reaches you in good health. I am contacting you because I currently face a profoundly difficult and emotionally turbulent situation, and I am in search of your counsel and insight. My story begins back in 2015 when I entered the University of Energy in Sunyani. There, I met a guy who became my coursemate and, from the very first day, captured my heart. I fell in love with him, but I was hesitant to express my feelings openly, so I opted to befriend him in the hope that our friendship would naturally evolve into a romantic relationship. We became inseparable, studying together, sharing meals, and even attending parties side by side. We were so close that it seemed like we were already in a relationship, even though he never saw me as more than a friend. In my deep affection for him, I went to great lengths to keep other potential suitors at bay, believing that someday he would recognize my feelings. I confided in one of my closest friends about my love...

Dear Counselor Beezy, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to you with a heavy heart, seeking your guidance and support to help me navigate a deeply painful and confusing chapter in my life. My story begins with a romantic relationship that I entered into with a businessman. We met through his friend, who happened to be engaged to my madam, a seamstress I was apprenticing with at the time. We all came from the same district in the Upper West Region of Ghana, which initially created a sense of familiarity and connection. Our relationship developed swiftly, and within two months, I found myself pregnant. He agreed to take responsibility for our child, and I moved in with him despite his uncompleted three-bedroom apartment. We managed together until I went into labour. We had discussed the idea of formally approaching my family for marriage, and he had agreed that we would have our traditional wedding during our child's naming ceremony. However, when the time came, th...

Hi Counselor Beezy,   I am reaching out to you in a time of great uncertainty and confusion, seeking your advice and guidance on a challenging situation that has been weighing heavily on my heart. I am a 24-year-old rotational nurse, trying to navigate life's challenges and responsibilities. I found myself in a romantic relationship with a man in his late 30s while I was still a nursing student. He used to assist me financially during my years at the nursing school, a period when my parents were facing financial struggles. Our bond grew stronger due to our shared hometown and the familiarity of living away from home. As our relationship deepened, I discovered that he was a married man with three children, a fact he initially concealed by claiming to be separated from his wife. Despite my scepticism, I chose to believe him as my feelings for him were strong. However, after receiving a warning call from his wife, I confronted him and realized the truth. This revelation led to ou...

  Why Yelling at Children Is Wrong and How to Deal with Stubborn Children Children are constantly growing and learning. It is important for their development and overall well-being that they receive guidance and discipline from adults. However, yelling at children is not an effective or healthy way to communicate with them. In this blog post, we will explore why yelling at children is wrong and discuss alternative approaches to dealing with stubborn behaviour. The Harmful Effects of Yelling Yelling at children can have long-lasting negative effects on their emotional and psychological well-being. Here are a few reasons why it is important to avoid yelling: 1.  Fear and Anxiety : Yelling creates an atmosphere of fear and anxiety for children. They may feel anxious about making mistakes or expressing their emotions, leading to low self-esteem and a lack of confidence. 2.  Communication Breakdown : Yelling hampers effective communication. When children experience constant ye...

Dear Counselor Beezy, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to you in a time of great emotional turmoil, seeking your guidance and insights on a deeply distressing situation I find myself in. Your wisdom and advice have been a source of comfort to many, and I am hopeful that you can offer me some clarity as well. Allow me to share my story. I am a 33-year-old woman who has been through life's ups and downs. I have a child from a previous relationship, and in my journey, I met a 24-year-old young man who recently graduated from the University of Ghana. We live as neighbours, and I extended a helping hand to him when he was unemployed and struggling financially. We developed a close bond, fueled by his relationship with my son and his willingness to assist with my son's homework. Over time, our connection deepened, and we found ourselves in a romantic relationship. This lasted for two years, during which I supported him in various ways, from providing food to cont...

Dear Counselor Beezy, I hope this letter finds you in good health. I am writing to seek your guidance and advice on a matter that has been causing me great confusion and distress. I trust in your expertise and hope that you can provide me with some clarity. I am a 30-year-old woman who has been married to a wonderful 43-year-old man for the past six years. Our marriage has been built on mutual love, respect, and understanding. When we got married, we both agreed to delay starting a family until I completed my first degree at Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology (KNUST). I am now employed as a civil servant, and my husband is a successful businessman. However, a significant challenge has arisen in our marriage. Shortly after I graduated, my husband unfortunately had an accident that resulted in erectile dysfunction. Despite our efforts, including seeking medical advice from doctors, traditional herbal dealers, and even spiritual guidance, his condition has not improved. Th...